I think that life at home has been interesting for Momma and Daddy. Daddy feels a lot of aprehension about leaving her alone, and Momma feels that she is okay to be left alone. After all that we have been through, I tend to agree with Daddy, but I certainly understand Momma's desire to be independent... a dilemma to be sure- Getting back into rehab tomorrow will certainly increase her independence... and her stamina. As it stands, simple things continue to tire her easily. I talk to her on the phone each day and a thirty minute phone call wears her out- Thinking is hard, but it is wonderful to be able to talk to her- more wonderful than you can imagine... To think that one month ago today we were in the ICU wondering if we would ever have conversations again is truly mind blowing to me....
Last Friday brought good news, although it was tempered by news of more waiting... Dr. Benkwith said that the 'fourth muscle' of her left eye was crushed when her brain swelled after the accident. The muscle will have to heal (which of course will take time) in order for her focus to return. In the meantime, he provided a stopgap measure which seems to be helping a lot. He prescribed a prism to put on the lens of her fancy Rock Star glasses which helps her to focus. She is reading (as many of you may know, Momma is an avid reader) and that is helping as well. Good news!
Pray that she will feel like getting on the computer again soon... so far, I think that she has been overwhelmed by the idea of the computer. I have cleaned out the email (I am deleting a LOT of spam and forwards... sorry if you are a forward sender! I am nixing them!) There were 582 messages when I started the process! I am also trying to figure out what to do with the ebay account for now - we had the store closed, but some folks still managed to buy some of her 'fabulous to funky finds' and now Daddy and Christopher have to find those finds to send them off! I know that a sure sign she feels better will be that she is on her computer again... even if just for a little bit each day.
From what I can tell, a day in the life of Jane right now is very restful, just what she needs... it is also full of her boys- her cat boys that is! Her cat boys were so lonesome without her and now feel that they are her protectors and are sure to be her healers.... Winston, Lamont and Oliver are not going to let anything else happen to their Momma.
Thanks again for all of your love and support. Please continue to pray for her eyes. Please also pray for motivation, stamina and a feeling of 'feeling good' during the day. She needs to be motivated to do good stuff during rehab and needs to see that there is a reason for all of the silly stuff they make you do in rehab... Please pray also for Daddy- for patience, for his stamina... pray for the time she has with folks who come to stay with her and please pray for Christopher and Julie who are in Montgomery and will also be spending time with her...
We love you all!
Regan
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